tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6285425159011985049.post62719698420651470..comments2024-03-03T12:25:19.364-05:00Comments on Sheltie Times: UpdateSheltie Timeshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09767754895398722143noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6285425159011985049.post-21623081986016637772016-04-28T09:19:21.776-04:002016-04-28T09:19:21.776-04:00We are heading to a shelter fund raising event thi...We are heading to a shelter fund raising event this weekend and one of the reasons this strikes me so hard is one of the complaints I often hear at these events is people return dogs because they expect perfection. <br /><br />Perhaps that is true in some cases. I can't speak for those people. I will say as I've talked with more people on this side of rescue that failure to disclose know issues is becoming a bigger issue than unrealistic expectations of a getting the perfect rescue dog. There are some really big issues that should be disclosed to perspective owners because it can result in a return of a dog and in most cases had the rescue been upfront the dog never would have left. Disclosure creates an honest open discussion. Perhaps the adopter is still willing to take on the challenge, but they go forward aware of the challenge. Perhaps they walk away knowing honestly, this isn't a fit for their home. They don't feel betrayed and angry when the truth comes out that was known by the rescue all along.<br /><br />I had one thing I couldn't deal with and that was aggression towards my other dogs. I did expect the dog could have other issues, both my other dogs did and we dealt with those issues with training and medical assistance. No dog is perfect and those that are abandoned often come with extra challenges. However, honesty is always the best policy. People don't enjoy surprises in adoptions that are almost always negative.Sheltie Timeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09767754895398722143noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6285425159011985049.post-54233886146865360742016-04-28T08:02:00.426-04:002016-04-28T08:02:00.426-04:00Yup I agree, the outcome is the same if an unsuita...Yup I agree, the outcome is the same if an unsuitable dog is matched - not good! <br /><br />I was hoping it was an honest - but just as unacceptable! - mistake, rather than done intentionally. Either way I can only imagine your frustration.<br /><br />I hope the future search for a companion goes smoother.Melonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05096024678243322835noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6285425159011985049.post-65930631141570925532016-04-27T10:25:52.819-04:002016-04-27T10:25:52.819-04:00It was clear when we returned the dog the informat...It was clear when we returned the dog the information was known and ignored. I have no desire to knock the rescue which is why it is not named. I want the dog to find a home, which is why he isn't named.<br /><br />I am just frustrated that this situation is not as uncommon as it should be in rescue. Disclosure and honesty is important for successful rescues to happen. Carelessness could have been part of the issue, sure in that they didn't think much about the known issues regarding this dog when placing him with other dogs. However, that is neglect and it leads to bad outcomes.Sheltie Timeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09767754895398722143noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6285425159011985049.post-26693504956218464122016-04-27T00:29:52.358-04:002016-04-27T00:29:52.358-04:00So so sorrySo so sorrytubby3pughttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01315017048832512111noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6285425159011985049.post-21074400431925330182016-04-26T22:20:56.051-04:002016-04-26T22:20:56.051-04:00I am sorry this happened to you. How incredibly fr...I am sorry this happened to you. How incredibly frustrating.<br /><br />Could it be a case of carelessness rather than dishonesty on the part of the rescue? Since the fact that he wasn't dog-friendly WAS disclosed when the adoption notice was finally put up, it seems like that was delayed and in the meantime someone messed up and released the dog to you.<br /><br />I know either way it doesn't make it any more frustrating, but perhaps it will make you less reluctant to consider rescue in future knowing it could be a (stupid, dangerous) mistake rather than intentional deceit.<br /><br />I don't think there's anything wrong with going to an ethical breeder but clearly rescue is important to you, so it would be wonderful if finding a suitable rescue worked out.<br /><br />Good luck! Melonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05096024678243322835noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6285425159011985049.post-68403672221167126882016-04-26T08:43:53.551-04:002016-04-26T08:43:53.551-04:00I'm going to have to respectfully disagree wit...I'm going to have to respectfully disagree with your vet, based on my vet's recommendations after we found out Bailey was facing health issues. Even after this incident, when DH and I are not sure how to move forward she encouraged us to try saying the right fit is out there for us. An aggressive dog just can't be part of the equation and it shouldn't make us lose faith.<br /><br />One thing I can guarentee would have ruined the dynamic with Cody and Dakota is a dog that attacked Cody and pinned Dakota on his back with his teeth to his throat before you could remove him from Dakota. That does a great deal to upset the dynamic. I'm not sure that would have been any different if we'd just had one dog for him to attack. He'd previously only had one animal in the house and they chose not to place him with her for aggressive behavior.<br /><br />There are lots of bloggers who have multiple dogs and they seem to make it work without having one dog trying to hurt all the others.Sheltie Timeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09767754895398722143noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6285425159011985049.post-44282451944465288012016-04-26T00:15:11.135-04:002016-04-26T00:15:11.135-04:00I am also sorry this didn't work out. I feel s...I am also sorry this didn't work out. I feel so bad. I am wondering if part of the problem was the "three" dynamic. I had often thought of getting another pet (be it a cat or a dog) and my Vet strongly advised against it. He said because Cody and Dakota get along so well, bringing in the third would immediately cause the third (no matter what it was) to be an outsider and would greatly upset the dynamic. I am wondering if that is also what happened here. I have heard of rescues not being completely transparent and that is unfortunate. If it were me, I would just enjoy and love your two for as long as you can......(((hugs))) <a href="http://www.dakotasden.net" title="DakotasDen" rel="nofollow">DakotasDen</a>Cat and DOG Chat With Carenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02666719374831725417noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6285425159011985049.post-13356983294169203602016-04-25T17:47:44.786-04:002016-04-25T17:47:44.786-04:00I'm so sorry it didn't work out - especial...I'm so sorry it didn't work out - especially sorry to hear the rescue group wasn't honest with you. Sending prayers that Katy and Bailey are OK. <br />KZKThe Army of Fourhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12430214230146328389noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6285425159011985049.post-50469746874740709192016-04-25T16:45:53.451-04:002016-04-25T16:45:53.451-04:00I agree with you that this seems to be happening m...I agree with you that this seems to be happening more often. We also have encountered rescuers who seem not to want to let go. There were two young Scots in Nati City that I put in for. We had three references one from our vet of 27 years, one from our PetSmart trainer and one from our reader dog program. The rescue group wanted to remain in our lives for two years doing in home visits every two months plus wanting me to sign back to them both dogs plus my dog if something happened to me. Now I have my Last Will and Testament set for any dog I have at the time with money to take care of whatever dogs I have at the time. This group wanted total control. Of course I was turned down the Scots we separated, sad. Funny two weeks later I got an e-mail from the rescue group asking me if I had adopted one of them. I was a transporter for a number of years. Sad this happened to Katy and Bailey and you.<br />Thanks for being a friend<br />Sweet William The ScotSweet William The Scothttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18230298902594046758noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6285425159011985049.post-45164856665424637942016-04-25T13:51:18.139-04:002016-04-25T13:51:18.139-04:00So sorry this happened as it has impacted all of y...So sorry this happened as it has impacted all of you. The rescue should have been totally up front with you and the fact they lied is scary. They are not doing rescue reputations any good. <br /><br />We hope you will all heal from the trauma because that does sound like it was traumatic for all of you. Jans Funny Farmhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15291874914770283114noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6285425159011985049.post-37346817648829854862016-04-25T10:08:17.890-04:002016-04-25T10:08:17.890-04:00I know this is easier looking from the outside in,...I know this is easier looking from the outside in, but I don't think you should view this as a fail. You were given faulty information about a dog and that lead to you taking home a completely unsuitable dog which had you known all the facts about before hand you would not have adopted. <br /><br />I know it is easier said then done but try not to let this affect you and try not to let it cloud future decisions. Going forwards you will find the right addition, and when that happens your gut will tell you that it is right. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09776500519089691634noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6285425159011985049.post-70215791836328031902016-04-25T09:00:15.070-04:002016-04-25T09:00:15.070-04:00OH Katie and Bailey and your PEEPS... what a sad ...OH Katie and Bailey and your PEEPS... what a sad thing. It was all wrong for Everyone... and that should NOT have happened to any of you. We agree that Rescues are run by volunteers and not professionals... but those volunteers should have enough training and information to be able to DO NO HARM. Clearly that is not the case with this group. <br /> <br />This situation was NOT your PEEPs Fault... it was caused by Faulty Information. <br /> Don't give up.... there is a dog out there that NEEDS you... and you WILL find it. <br /> We are in your corner.. and do NOT want you to feel guilty in the least over this unfortunate situation. Frankie Furter and Erniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06667365633354170385noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6285425159011985049.post-51937204814836027092016-04-25T08:18:29.071-04:002016-04-25T08:18:29.071-04:00I'm so sorry this happened. Seems as though h...I'm so sorry this happened. Seems as though honesty would prevent many dogs from having to be rehomed repeatedly, which is not good for the dog or potential humans. <br /><br />I really wanted to get a rescue when Misty dies, because we had rescued her. However, I knew getting a new dog would be difficult for my sensitive Oreo, and decided a newborn puppy would be the best option for him. I was right too. He was very open to having a puppy in our house, and accepted him in less than 24 hours.<br /><br />I think you have to find the right dog for your situation and don't let yourself feel guilty about your choices. If there is any place you should feel stress free it is in your own home.<br /><br />Sarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07715453703592474992noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6285425159011985049.post-21524283688799970262016-04-25T07:09:49.542-04:002016-04-25T07:09:49.542-04:00Sorry to hear the rescue dog didn't work out. ...Sorry to hear the rescue dog didn't work out. We think you did the right thing returning him to find his forever home as an only dog where he/she will be happier. Its a shame they weren't honest with you from the beginning. Maybe look for a Sheltie Breeder in your area?Lassiter Chase and Benjaminhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18134055278875093255noreply@blogger.com